BE THE SPOUSE YOU WISH TO MARRY
"Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women..."
(Qur'an, 24:26)
Be the spouse you wish to marry. Many brothers and sisters unfortunately wish to have the most pious spouse yet they fail to observe their Deen themselves. They're loose with their eyes, tongues, And relations with the opposite Gender.
They flirt, and talk to all of these different people at once trying to figure out what spouse is best for them yet they're deluding themselves because the spouse they wish to have isn't the type who would be behaving in the manner they do.
If you wish to have someone pure, then purify yourself first. Allah (God) watches everything we do and is well aware of our intentions and actions. Marriage is serious in Islam, you have to be willing to treat your spouse in the best possible manner and also know their rights and fulfil them, you have to fear Allah (God) in regards to every word you say to them, even at the worst times especially.
Anyone can treat someone good at the start, but how will things be when Allah Azzawajal (God) starts sending tests your way? How will it be when that passion or love is at its low points? Will you still appreciate them for what they've done even at the times when life gets busy for either them or yourself? True believers easily pass through the tests because the spouses rely on Allah (God), they control the negative side of their emotions and nafs, they know they're more than just spouses, they're also brothers and sisters in Islam, and the best of friends.
The healthiest of marriages are those who are well aware of what Allah (God) commands of them and also able to act on the knowledge they have. No one should marry without purifying their intentions for the sake of Allah (God).
If you have Allah Azzawajal (God), the example of The Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) and his wives for your character, and you practice Islam treating eachother with kindness, communication, compassion, understanding and forgiveness, then surely with the Mercy of Allah (God) you'll succeed In Shah Allah (If God Wills). May Allah (God) bless the marriages of the Ummah (Society), Ameen!
Be the spouse you wish to marry. Many brothers and sisters unfortunately wish to have the most pious spouse yet they fail to observe their Deen themselves. They're loose with their eyes, tongues, And relations with the opposite Gender.
They flirt, and talk to all of these different people at once trying to figure out what spouse is best for them yet they're deluding themselves because the spouse they wish to have isn't the type who would be behaving in the manner they do.
If you wish to have someone pure, then purify yourself first. Allah (God) watches everything we do and is well aware of our intentions and actions. Marriage is serious in Islam, you have to be willing to treat your spouse in the best possible manner and also know their rights and fulfil them, you have to fear Allah (God) in regards to every word you say to them, even at the worst times especially.
Anyone can treat someone good at the start, but how will things be when Allah Azzawajal (God) starts sending tests your way? How will it be when that passion or love is at its low points? Will you still appreciate them for what they've done even at the times when life gets busy for either them or yourself? True believers easily pass through the tests because the spouses rely on Allah (God), they control the negative side of their emotions and nafs, they know they're more than just spouses, they're also brothers and sisters in Islam, and the best of friends.
The healthiest of marriages are those who are well aware of what Allah (God) commands of them and also able to act on the knowledge they have. No one should marry without purifying their intentions for the sake of Allah (God).
If you have Allah Azzawajal (God), the example of The Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) and his wives for your character, and you practice Islam treating eachother with kindness, communication, compassion, understanding and forgiveness, then surely with the Mercy of Allah (God) you'll succeed In Shah Allah (If God Wills). May Allah (God) bless the marriages of the Ummah (Society), Ameen!
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